With love, it’s not a question of ‘if’ but ‘when’. For Aishwarya and Akul, the same applied to their wedding celebrations. They patiently waited for 687 days to celebrate their wedding along with their friends and family in Mysuru. And what a celebration it was. Click here to see the photos!
Read moreMeenakshi & Abhirath | An Intimate Arya Samaj Wedding @ Home
When the entire world was busy complaining about how they were confined to their homes due to Covid19, Meenakshi decided to get married to Abhirath on the terrace of her home that she grew up in. Meenakshi got her Mehendi applied with her Mother’s beloved Bougainvillea plants as the backdrop. And she got her portraits done on the swing installed by her grandmother for her before she was even born! Honestly, I can’t think of a better place for anyone to get married!
Read moreSneha & Shubho | Hindu Bengali Wedding | The Sylvan Retreat Dehradun
Sneha’s & Shubho’s wedding was a dream for me. It was in a resort that sits comfortably between two river streams, up in the hills of Dehradun. The wedding itself was under a mango tree with thirty guests in attendance. And every night, after all the rituals and group photos - there would a bonfire where everyone would drink and dance or dance and drink or just drink :) I still think about those bonfires - which kept us warm during the 4 degrees Celcius nights.
Read moreNupur & Sandeep | Hindu Tamil Mudaliar South Indian Wedding | Jayamahal Palace, Bengaluru
Earlier this year, I shot a typical Bangalore winter wedding. Mornings were averaging at a cool 19 degrees but love kept everyone warm at the wedding :) Since Nupur is Marwadi and Sandeep a Mudaliar Tamil, the wedding was a beautiful marriage (pun intended) between both the cultures. And a huge gang of friends ensured there was enough madness to last the couple a lifetime.
Unlike other wedding blogs, I won’t write much here. But will let the photos do the talking :)
Photography: Elvin Jacob
Wedding Film: Amal Roy Films
MUAH: Ayesha Khan / Senorita Salons
MC: MC Shabana
DJ: DJ Diwu
Mehendi: RK Mehendi Art
Venue: Jayamahal Palace, Bengaluru
Special Mention: Keerthana Rao & Pushkar Murthy
Sheryl & Sachin | Marthoma Malayalee South Indian Wedding | Maramon Marthoma Church, Thiruvalla Kerala
Ok this is weird. ‘Cause this is personal.
Dec 29, 2016 was the date on which Sheryl & Sachin got married in a traditional Marthoma Christian ceremony in Thiruvalla, Kerala. It was a beautiful wedding, especially because no one was in a hurry. You see, Christian weddings don’t really have a muhurat/muhurtham. So there isn’t any need to hurry things up. But, at every Malayalee Christian wedding there will be this one person who’ll keep nudging you to hurry things up, unnecessarily. Having seen a decent number of traditional Malayalee Christian ceremonies (and having gotten married in one), I can safely say it’s close to impossible to get married without having someone rushing you, unnecessarily. I was relieved cause on Dec 29, 2016 no one was in a hurry. But then, I was wrong.
After finishing the wedding, I packed my bags and started the three hour drive to Kochi airport. I was all kicked about attending my college senior Ryan’s wedding in Mumbai, next day. Fortunately for me, I was travelling with Sheryl’s brother who happened to be a Doctor. One hour into the journey, around 730 PM, I got a call from my 36-week-pregnant wife Rini. She was only due on Jan 18, 2017 and had gone in for a regular checkup on Dec 29, 2016. She complained of some pain and doctors advised her to spend the night under observation at the hospital. I discussed this with Sheryl’s brother and he said - “If I were you, I’d cancel the trip and head straight to the hospital”. Though a little reluctant, I decided to cancel my Mumbai trip. At 1015 PM I had just entered Kochi city limits when I got a call from Rini’s mom saying - “Rini delivered! It’s a girl!” I remember not being able to believe it. After all, I had spoken to Rini just 2.5 hours ago and everything was normal. How could she go into labour and deliver so quickly? I kind of shouted at my MIL asking her how it’s even possible. Apparently her labour lasted only for 90 minutes, which is rare and a blessing for everyone. Part of me was sad that I wasn’t next to Rini during the delivery, but I was over the moon ‘cause we had a baby girl! I wanted a girl and we had only thought of Ruth as a name. And in all honesty, I was relieved that we were not required to think of a baby boy’s name! Thank God for that! So yeah, on Sheryl’s and Sachin’s wedding day, none of their family & friends were in a hurry. But a little girl was.
Moral Of The Story: At every Malayalee Christian wedding, there’ll always be one Mallu who’ll defy logic, law and science to hurry things up. Even if it means he/she has to take birth sooner :)
Needless to say, I’ll never forget this wedding :) Will probably be retelling this story even after I turn 70 in 2056! :)
Photography: Elvin Jacob
Venue: Maramon Marthoma Church, Thiruvalla
Special Thanks: Jiya Benni & Nidhin Stanley
”When my friends, who got married a year before I did, showed me the photographs of their wedding reception, I really loved it. I loved seeing the small moments captured on camera. That’s the kind of photography Sachin and I wanted for our wedding.
When we began corresponding with Elvin, we were so at ease talking to him. He came the evening before the wedding, there was a prayer at my home. He interacted wonderfully with my family and friends. On the big day, he was at my place at 5 AM and captured lovely moments of my makeup and my interaction with my mom. He even got my goofiness on camera! It didn’t feel awkward at all. I felt a friend was clicking my photos.
A Kerala Christian Wedding doesn’t have a lot of ceremonies or functions going on but through Elvin’s lens, every moment seemed special. Some of the photos we loved among others were - Sachin signing 'I Agree' in the register, my dad hugging me, our entire family laughing at the reception stage and me bawling my eyes out when my parents took my hand to place it in my in laws’ hands. Post that, we had a small couple shoot. Both of us were a bit nervous during the shoot but Elvin managed to capture all the moments where we were truly smiling and not faking it. That was great!
When we got the final work product, it was amazing! It’s an album we would treasure always!” -Sheryl & Sachin
Snigdha & Himanshu | North Indian Hindu Wedding | Noida Golf Course, Delhi NCR
“All Good Things Take Time” - The Power of Slow is quite underrated. So is my talent for procrastination. Eight Months. Eight Long Months have I sat pondering what’d be a good start for this blogpost. Well, thanks to my lazying around, I don’t need to think for another intro to this post now, do I?!
Speaking of time, I started speaking to Snigdha about her wedding photography in late-2011. Yup! That isn’t a typo :) My Manipal senior Namrata had hired me to shoot her wedding with her fiancé Vikram. It was my first paid wedding photography assignment. I was mind-blown by the experience. And it’s there where I first met Snigdha, Namrata’s cousin who doubled up as her bridesmaid/gift collector/gift protector/shoe-stealer/overall life of the party & family. I took a few photos of Snigdha in action. So back in 2011 she told me that when she gets married, I’d be shooting her wedding. It felt good that a girl was fixing her wedding photographer before her fiancé :D
Eight years later, in July last year Snigdha pinged me saying she’s getting married in February 2019 and wanted me to shoot her wedding! I was thrilled! Not only did she remember what she’d told me, she had kept her word as well!!! Apart from getting to shoot a proper Dilli Ki Shaadi, here I was, back to where I started. Seeing the super-warm faces of Snigdha’s family once again was pure joy! Most of them remembered me. It felt so good to have them ask about my haal chaal. And to top it all - I got to see Namrata’s & Vikram’s lovely kids Ranveer and Samar :)
So yeah, coming back to the point - If a wedding’s photography takes eight years to materialize, it’s okay if its blog takes eight months to come through! Almost poetic, won’t you call it?
Photography: Elvin Jacob
MUH: Varnika Suryavanshi / Glammed by VS
Venue: Noida Golf Course, Delhi NCR
Special Thanks: Ragini Singh
Super Special Thanks: Namrata Nath <3
”Elvin captured so many beautiful moments for me at the wedding. He was able to capture people's emotions and bring them alive in the photos. When I see the pictures now, I can see the action, emotions, rituals, and relive the entire event. His ability to connect with the families and relatives make him exceptionally good at capturing the right emotion at the right time. I highly recommend him.” - Snigdha & Himanshu
Here’s Snigdha from Namrata’s & Vikram’s Wedding in 2011 :)
(L-R) 1. Snigdha had just turned 21 on this day. And was moments away from a cake being smashed on her face!
2. Snigdha smiling at someone. Pretty sure it wasn’t Himanshu! :)
3. Immediately after stealing Vikram’s shoes, Snigdha posed for this photograph and later during negotiations asked for a cool Rs 21,000 from her jiju :D
And here’s the adorable note Namrata & Vikram sent me after their wedding in 2011. It stays safe with my other certificates. It’s not less than one after all :)
Nikhil & Saranya | Hindu Kannadiga - Tamil Brahmin Wedding | Temple Tree Farms, Bengaluru
Ok so I have to confess. I really tried to pun Lawyers and Lovers for this blogpost. I really did. But I failed. So go ahead - Sue Me!
Coming back to Nikhil’s and Saranya’s wedding - Both of them are lawyers and pretty sure quite popular. ‘Cause they had as many friends as other wedding guests at their wedding! Friends from school, college and work came together to attend their beautiful wedding at the Temple Tree Farms in Sahakarnagar, Bengaluru.
Like my sense of humour, monsoons also threatened to ruin the wedding. The venue for the Sangeet was a beautiful outdoor one. But a sudden downpour forced everyone indoors. Nikhil and Saranya however put up a brave face against both these ‘natural calamities’. Their friends chipped in with some heavy but graceful cardio disguised as dance. And it was mission accomplished with the Sangeet.
Saranya’s adorable set of school friends danced beautifully and later told us that they danced badly - just like those class toppers from school who’d would write answers to everything in the question paper but would later tell their mortal classmates (like me) that they will fail. I refuse to be fooled again like this.
Big shoutout to Vibin Venugopal (Founder of Headless Hippies) who connected Nikhil & me. I had shot Vibin’s wedding in 2016 and the things he did ahead of the wedding were quite interesting. Check his story out here.
Photography: Elvin Jacob, Srinivas RS
Traditional Team: Sudheer Hebbar
MUH: Sruthi Julta
Wedding Planners: Millionbellz Events
Venue: Temple Tree Farms, Sahakarnagar
Prathama & Richard | British Hindu Odia Wedding | Mayfair Lagoon, Bhubaneswar
Prathama & Richard (P&R) spoke to me sometime last year, saying they’re getting married and that too across three different continents - Asia (Odisha), Europe (Bath) & Africa (Johannesburg). I almost leapt for joy at the prospect of shooting all three weddings! The dreamer in me woke up and went to work. I pictured myself geotagging my social media posts with exotic locations like Paris (instead of Pallakad), Cape Town (instead of Kanyakumari) and Bali (instead of Bengaluru) with hashtags like #internationalweddingphotographer & #shootlife! I swear the only place where I didn’t check-in was the moon itself!
Life, Prathama and Richard however had other plans. P&R told me that they wanted me to only shoot their Odisha wedding. Sigh! My dreams, hopes, aspirations and social media strategy came down crashing that very instant. But their wedding turned out to be exactly the fun, intimate and ‘non-wedding’ wedding that I’d dreamt of attending someday. Be it the Odissi & Chhau dance performances, daily parties or Sobriety Tests (i.e. drunk people asking the sober ones to prove their sobriety by walking in a straight line. Nice try!) - It was fun! Everyone danced together on Odia classics like Rangabati among Hindi/English tracks like they knew each one of those songs! P&R were personally involved in all aspects of their wedding. Their family & friends from across the world were coming down and P&R ensured they got to see India the way many Indians haven’t. Everyone at the wedding was having a great time. And personally, I didn’t feel I was working as the vibes were such.
On Day 1, Prathama’s & Richard’s respective fathers got onto the stage to speak. I am pretty sure neither had any idea of what the other was going to say. But it was beautiful how both speeches complimented each other perfectly. Richard’s Father mentioned that he grew up during the peak of Apartheid in South Africa where fraternising with people of colour was a taboo. And that to see the very next generation in his family look beyond all these material differences was just so heartwarming! Prathama’s Father on the other hand quoted Indian Astronaut Rakesh Sharma - “People always ask me what I looked for when I first viewed Earth from orbit. Well, the thing that astronauts of other countries did was to look out for their country. And that's exactly what I did. It was a wonderful sight and when our then Prime Minister Smt Indira Gandhi asked me what India looked like, I told her: Saare Jahan Se Achchha (the best in the world). Then, slowly, you begin to realise that borders are not visible from space and then you start looking at your country as part of a whole and the whole being planet Earth itself. You come back feeling how fragile the planet is and how it needs to be protected.” Different perspectives, similar inferences!
I think I’ve said enough. So let’s see some pictures from the wedding, shall we?! :)
Photography: Elvin ‘Almost International‘ Jacob
MUH: Shubhraseema Nayak / Manu’s Midas Touch
Venue: MAYFAIR Lagoon, Bhubaneswar
Entertainment Courtesy: Pruthwiraj Panigrahi, Anashwara Radhakrishnan, Prasunna KP
Special Mention: Plasma :)
Sneha & Manoj | Hindu Tamil - Sindhi Wedding | ISKCON, Bengaluru
Most love stories have three versions - Her Story, His Story and The Actual Story. The love story of Sneha and Manoj also has three versions - One for Sneha’s family, One for Manoj’s family and lastly ‘The Actual Story’ that only Sneha and Manoj know of! :D I sincerely hope their families never get to read this blog so that Sneha’s and Manoj’s secret remains safe ;) Oh and yes, if you know them personally, ask Manoj why he likes to rub his nose on Sneha’s cheeks :D
Sneha’s & Manoj’s wedding was the perfect fusion of the legendary punctuality of Tamil Brahmin Weddings and the outrageously high energy levels that Sindhi weddings are famous for. It was three days of almost non-stop wedding celebrations for their family and friends. Legend has it some of them are still dancing :)
I personally consider this as one of my favourite weddings of 2018. Be it Sneha sporting jewellery designed by her own Mother (Sarita Aunty) or the family portrait at Manoj’s place on a swing that has been with the family for several decades - the warmth felt real.
Photography: Elvin Jacob, Nishal Lama
Traditional Photography & Videography: Sudheer Hebbar, Revanna, Prasad
MUA (Mehendi/Sangeet/Reception): Kulsum Parvez
MUA (Engagement/Wedding): Shreya and Chandini Asrani
DJ: Vipul Khurana
Wedding Film: NJM Productions
Venues: Radisson Blu Atria (Bengaluru), Taj Westend (Bengaluru), ISKCON (Bengaluru)
”We so glad to have signed in Elvin to shoot pictures for my daughter’s wedding. He is very professional with his work, from the couple shoots to all the candid & traditional pictures captured & on time delivery of the final product. We had crazy schedules & he did an amazing job by capturing all our emotions & love consistently. Beautiful memories etched for life.” - Sarita Chhabria
Anupama & Vineeth | Traditional Malayali Hindu Temple Wedding | Trivandrum
Hindu Weddings in Kerala are famously short. They are simpler, calmer and quite often, very relaxed. Anupama & Vineeth got married in a similar and traditional ceremony in Trivandrum’s Shanghumugham Devi Temple. Upon checking the timestamps, I realized that the actual wedding ceremony lasted just over 10 minutes! This duration isn’t even enough for a warmup in many Indian wedding ceremonies. And here, the entire wedding ceremony was over!
During the wedding, I befriended Veda and Vihaan - Vineeth’s niece and nephew, respectively. And they turned out to be pretty good with the camera for their age. In fact, some of the photos they took ended up in the final wedding set. Cool huh?! :)
Photography: Elvin Jacob
Wedding Venue: Shanghumugham Devi Temple, Trivandrum
Reception Venue: Trivandrum Golf Club
”Having Elvin around was one of the highlights of our wedding day. He is an extremely calming and friendly presence to have around on one of the more stressful days in life. Not once did we have to fake being in love :-) or indulge in artificial displays of affection. We felt like his pictures literally weaved a story, often through capturing waves of emotions and candid moments. (the cutely awkward ones were particularly awesome!). Moreover, the kids love him and his Harry Potter-esque style! This guy even nice enough to give them some basic photography lessons amid all the chaos. To sum up his work, Elvin has an eye for seeing beauty in the most unlikely of places and moments, capturing your uniqueness as a family/couple.” - Anupama & Vineeth
